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NAMI PA Wilkes-Barre Newsletter
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NAMI PA Wilkes-Barre Chapter News Living with Mental Illness:
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Many will agree that the highlight of the NAMI PA conference was Saturday’s
Opening Plenary with Fred and Penny Frese. Their presentations were informative, inspiring and entertaining . Dr. Frese, a husband
and father of four, shared that he is a person with Schizophrenia. “I’m
not only a psychologist but a psychotic psychologist,” quipped Dr. Frese. Dr. Frese explained the
cognitive differences in a person with Schizophrenia as deficits in:
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learning Penny Frese spoke from the
perspective of a spouse. She related that Fred dropped the “S” (Schizophrenia)
word on her thirty years ago. Penny shared that denial is the first step in coping followed by the three A’s: Acceptance (“expand the parameters of normal behavior, recognize gifts, acknowledge accountability”),
Accommodation (“build |
on strengths”) and
Advocacy (“bite the ankle and hold on”). She encouraged families
to learn everything they can and to redefine their own thought patterns by looking for the blessings for “when God takes
with one hand he gives with another.” She has “companioned Fred on his difficult journey.” |
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Mission Minded Couple Receives
Award Imagine that at the age
of 25, your educated and working child becomes disabled with a disorder few people acknowledge as a real illness, let alone
understand. You witness the struggle with accepting the diagnosis, with enduring
the medication side effects and with the stigma. You want to become involved
when your child is hurting but don’t know where to turn. Involved in advocacy, working with others to develop a clubhouse,
helping get furniture to a person in need and helping a person with MH/MR. Their
most recent endeavor is to help families retain guardianship of their family members who need family support. Upon receiving the Jean Pisano Award at the NAMI-PA awards dinner,
Ruth Helgemo noted “our hearts are with people with mental illness because they have touched our lives: Indeed the work of Ruth and Bill Helgemo has touched our lives as well.
By Glenda Race, |
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